The question of will my friends and family find out about my adult career comes up often. There’s no definitive answer here.
While many webcam sites offer geo-blocking technology to restrict users from certain locations access to your content, that may not be a blanket solution to your neighbor seeing you on screen. There are countless VPN services that allow them to get around those firewalls and other methods. Those workarounds don’t account for people outside of the geographical areas recognizing you.
It’s probably best to assume that they know or will know about this at some point. The only thing that can be said for certain is that the best approach is to figure out if you’re willing to deal with any consequences prior to being identifiable on camera. If so, you’ll be ready and able to handle any conversation much better. If you plan on keeping it a secret and you’ll deal with it if/when you’re confronted, it may be more difficult.
There’s no rule here. There’s no best practice. Every family and friend circle is different and unique. Be prepared. Consulting with a professional about how to best have this conversation with them is advisable. These can be very difficult and should be handled with the most care, concern, and consideration.
The long and short is, be prepared to have the conversation, it’s likely going to be had at some point if you’re to be successful.